
I love this statement from Jeffrey J. Fox's book How to become a great boss. If you have been a manager for quite some time you would probably agree with his statement from experiences both good and challenging...
Companies do what the boss does-
People take their cues from their boss. The boss sets the tone and the standards. the boss sets the example... If the boss is polite, rude people don't last. If the boss accepts mediocrity, mediocrity is what she gets.
If the boss is innovative and inventive, the company looks for opportunities. If the boss does everyone's job, the employees will let him. If the boss gives everyone in the organization a World Series ring, then everyone wants to win the World Series (p. 6-7).
Personally, I have always had a personal policy in regards to proper behavior towards employees when it comes to chastisement. I certainly would not appreciate an employee raising their voice at me in public or private. I would expect my employees to have enough respect for me to request a private meeting in regards to any personal concerns they might have instead of doing it in public. And I would certainly hope that my staff would give me the benefit of the doubt in regards to possible misinformation they have received or witnessed.
So I feel that as a supervisor I need to set the example. I would not wish this sort of behavior on my staff and thus I certainly do not wish to make my staff feel the way I would if someone working for me did these things to me. They are valuable investments and human beings with inherent value.
Now of course since I do not make it a policy to behave this way towards my staff I certainly will not tolerate such behavior from them towards myself (and I have had to pull staff members aside once or twice to address this a time or two...). I believe though that I must be a teacher first before becoming some disciplinarian, a Team Leader before becoming a "Boss".
Some people just need to be kindly (though sternly) reminded once. We are all human...
Please don't forget friends- There are no problems, just challenges and opportunities for greatness.
-J